• I can’t count the number of times I’ve used these two words on initiatives to empty out the junk in my life. 🗑 I feel I’m going to be decluttering for the rest of my existence. It’s really how excessive or “accidental” we can be with the things we buy. For example, I’ve books 3…

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  • Last August 5th was my 1st anniversary as a credentialed R+ trainer, and the first Accredited Dog Trainer (ADT) in the Philippines. I look back at the day I got my results, and felt pure joy and gratitude for all the people, things, and events that helped me pursue dog training as a calling. I’m…

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  • Waking up each day to cracks on the walls, shadows in every corner, and negative space you don’t know what to do with was taking its toll on me. I would stare at the broken tiles on the kitchen counter and wish I could just break the entire thing down with a mallet. I’d sit…

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  • It looks like another year went by in silence. So much has happened, but I didn’t (emphasis on the intention) take the time to write about it. Yet, it’s funny how the subtle cues could rekindle the spark and lead me back here. New look who dis? I was going working through my inbox when…

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  • No matter how often I change courses with this space, it continues to remind me that this isn’t for passions or thematic thought vomits. This isn’t the place to market or promote, to shout out or recommend. Hell, Stef. What’s going on here? I keep returning to my blog wondering if this is really the…

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  • My first Black Friday as a dog parent was nothing short of an adrenalin rush. The last two weeks of November saw an explosive number of product launches, sales, and marketing emails that it was difficult sticking to wish lists and budgets. We survived those crazy weeks, thankfully, and snagged some really good deals in…

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  • I looked over at Windy, who I just tucked inside her travel crate. I didn’t utter a sound. I kept movements as subtle as possible. She’s been awake since 5 in the morning. I didn’t take her on her usual early morning walk; instead, she got to romp with her Corgi brother, Brooklyn, have some…

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  • Life threw a couple of really nasty curve balls over the weekend, leaving me crying, throwing tantrums, and just feeling absolutely down to the ground. It took many days before I can finally start filling this space again. But knowing that I’ve made myself promise to write more, I thought it best to break things…

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  • Hey, there. Journal, virtual space stamped with my mark—diwa. How heartwarming yet melancholic this feeling of re-entering what was once an intimate and frequented space. I’ve been silent, and have chosen silence, since Ama’s passing and the arrival of our two new furry family members. Time, physical energy, mental strength were not on my side…

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  • People cope with loss and change in different ways. Some would stay in bed. Some would go on journeys for self-discovery. I’d normally binge on my favorite food 🍗, watch a bunch of anime shows online, or shop online 🛍️ with absolutely no restraint. Nope. I agreed to go with the most unideal, impractical, and…

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