Just thinking about how I even managed to land my new job leaves me speechless and humbled.  I remember how each job-less day was a stressful ordeal Jayson and I had to manage in silence. We did our best to keep our composure and focus to be able to maintain peace and order in the…

The title pretty much explains it all, but I wanna explain the details behind this new direction in case you’ve heard of pagerie.co, have tried to visit the site, and end up seeing an error where the site doesn’t exist. pagerie does exist. It’s my very own space where I can talk freely, frequently or…

I wish it was easy enough to just write about all that’s happened over the last few weeks. I could only record recent events by hand on my notebook since it’s within reach and didn’t require me to log in, give it a title, upload a featured image, etc. But silence doesn’t have to last…

27 days ago, I thought of doing a small personal experiment to find out what it was like to emulate or mimic social media influencers. The idea was a bit fuzzy at that time, but it started when I discovered Facebook had this new feature called “sets.” It’s similar to Google+ or Pinterest where you’d…

Yesterday, I passed the Nursery class after dropping Noah off at his classroom for the day. The kids formed two lines, with their Chinese teacher demonstrating how to, if I understood their gestures correctly, walk properly within their lines. Their hands at their hips, the taller assistant standing behind her, the Nursery teacher spoke her…

I’m still wrestling with the idea that twelve long months have already gone by. So many things happened and changed, so many goals accomplished and failed, it’s hard not to wonder what the new year could bring to the table this time. My 2017 ally is my undated Passion Planner and it enabled me to…

I read that asking a child, or anyone for that matter, what they would like to be growing up is problematic. The question demands that you select and identify with one specific occupation. It leaves no room for changes in decision, interest, or preference. Moreover, if you come from a family that expects you to…

I’ve come to believe that important life lessons are learned through either advice or hands-on experience. The latter, more often than not, is the best and most painful teacher. It’s also the teacher whose classes I keep attending with or without intention. ? This week’s lesson I had to (re)learn is to read before you…

Every time I log in to Twitter (@heysstef), I get distracted by the 18.4K tweet count glaring at me from the side of my feed. I couldn’t shake off the urge to bring that number down, no matter how senseless and time-consuming the task was. Did I really post that many tweets? What were those…